As you guys know, things have been less than nifty here. My mom and I have been having arguments over everything, and things have never been worse with my stepdad. I am at the end of my rope, and its causing me a lot of stress and my anxiety is flaring up really badly.
So, I have decided that I’m…
I have almost the same situation. Recently, my mother and step dad got into a fight about me. A fight as in she hit him with a control and he pulled my momma’s hair ALL IN FRONT OF MY LITTLE SISTER. He had a problem that I still lived there and that I needed my mom a lot. I never liked him. I barely say hi to him since he has moved in. He’s been living with us for about 4 or 5 years. That night, was my limit. I moved out with my boyfriend and his family. My mom’s REALLY upset about it but I feel so much happier. My baby’s daddy gets to see her all day everyday now and well now I get to spend time with him and actually get to school on time and get homework done. I think it helped me out a lot even though almost everyone in my family is upset about it. I did what I had to do. Now, my mom is saying that they’re no longer going to be together but I really don’t see that. They still live with each other and that bothers me. NO ONE should treat my mother like that. Not after what she’s been through with so many broken relationships that I saw her go through, breast cancer, several surgeries, and so much more. If I were you, I’d keep Oliver away from your stepdad. You may never know and I wouldn’t take a risk for both me or my child’s safety.